When you are old

The risen Jesus says this to Peter by the lake, after asking him three times whether he loves him. Being young means dressing yourself, literally fastening your own belt, and going where you want. Being old: stretching out your hands and being taken away. John says it was about Peter's death. Ancient sources say: crucified in Rome.

Following often begins in freedom and sometimes ends in dependence. That is true too for anyone who grows old or ill and has to be dressed by others. Jesus doesn't promise that you stay in control. He does promise that this road too can honour God. And then: follow me.